Well, when you see the Duomo
you begin to be suspicious, but other towns have Duomos. When you hear the drums
and see the flags
you are pretty sure, especially when you notice that all the females have been relegated to the back of the parade
you begin to think this must be it, although other towns have drums and flags (but not as many as Siena, we think). Having an aperitivo on the Piazza del Campo, reinforces your suspicion.
But, when you pass by one of your favorite restaurants and find it closed, but the proprietor spots you and comes out to welcome you back
you know you are back in Siena again!